"Hope children will have a bright future " it is the parent expectation to the child. But expectation is not equal to reality, into " dragon " can be minority only. Although be squeezed into " dragon " group, also will surely not protect lifelong without anxiety.

In the child " prodigy " it is rare, great majority is Everyman. But their disposition each different, short long each other sees.

Have a plenty of the small colt that is good at sprint, have a plenty of the small calf with preeminent endurance... they will find him play in the society the position of ability, but differ choose a site for the capital can be become " dragon " .

Once good will of the parent loses contact with reality and the importunity with obstinate melt into, meet so unfortunately change change appears. Overweight study burden stripped the joy of many child childhood, be disgusted with learns to abandon learned psychology to be caused from this. The parent's one's own wishful thinking replaced own option of the child, curb what its love and strong its place is evil. "Pull Lang Pei " evil consequence cannot be avoided surely. Exorbitant expectation value forces child be oblivious of the outside world, 4 system not diligent, standoffish, face intense competition and complicated life hard in the future, some did not enter social tragedy to happen even. "Hope children will have a bright future " the result is become " bug " , a lot of moment are parent skill is caused, not Bei! Because of this, that why not with " Wang Zicheng implement " will replace " hope children will have a bright future " ? "Implement " it is useful content, cover deep wide, only easy one word, devree is disparate. "Implement " but can small, but Fang Keyuan, but essence of life but thick, first when need not, omnipresent, need for worldly place.

"Wang Zicheng implement " not was to reduce a demand, accorded with however actual. It is what material becomes what implement. The parent should know capable person attentively, guide correctly. It is pony foal lets him run more quickly, it is calf lets he loads and far, is not to importune them to be become " dragon " .

"Wang Zicheng implement " have bigger flexibility, can bring comfortable environment, children can have the space of free development. Crossing much check and protection to grow to the child is adverse. Make the child some more freedom and independence, their individual character and specialty will get more sufficient progress.

"Become a useful person " point to ability not simply, also point to moral character. Become addiction, action to those smoke wine not clear, not attend to one's proper works or duties person all open up for " not become a useful person " . So " Wang Zicheng implement " the tendency that conduces to correct feature face valueing intellectual education. The person establishs body society, the most important is to be an upright person, do the person of a be worthy of the name. The person is the most precious is human conscience and the love to the society. The person's ability, contribution can have volume, but the person's conscience and love cannot lose.
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