Lock says philosopher of England well: "Parents not the fault of advocate children, criterion children is valued more to her reputation. They feel they are to have honorary person, can take care more consequently the ground safeguards others to oneself reputably. If announce their error in public, make its feel too ashamed to show one's face, they are to feel their reputation had gotten hit more, try to safeguard others reputably psychology also heals thin. " visible, before the face of others criticism teachs methodological paltrily of children.
No matter is the boy, girl, there is one to plant like the girl and adult especially cannot the independent character of humiliate and proper pride, if the child one blamable, the parent goes out with respect to open advocate, make child make an exhibition of oneself, its can deepen the child only as a result by the impression of rebuke, feel oneself lost outer part before everybody, generation is consequently self-abased, generation is gone against turn over psychology. This grows to the child's health, it is harmful and profitless.
parent teachs the child to must notice time, place and method, should be opposite particularly of the child " error " do careful analysis, give correct inspiration and revulsive. Edison crouchs in henroost to learn in one's childhood when the hen is incubative, its mother does not think son " nerve is abnormal " and rebuke in public, contrary, think the son changed mind, it is the exploration of a kind of practice of incubative to the hen phenomenon. Mix as a result of correct inspiration revulsive, edison makes a big inventor eventually later.
teachs basic principle of the child, be in the proper pride that safeguards the child, below the premise that respects child personality, with very the mood of care and very dispassionate mood, timely comfortable ground applies proper method to point out to the child " error " harm sex and amendatory way, allow its to have a process, make the child realises the parent is a person that is worth reliance. Such, educational effects is met a few bigger.