One, not when the child had serious problem to just seek a teacher. Psychologist thinks, the teacher of mutual understanding and parent play in relaxed atmosphere, when exchanging a view to the child's problem, mutual between opinion of very few reservation.
2, all parents think his child is good, making a mistake is accidental place is. The expert often reminds parents: "Ask parents not to forget, what the teacher is in charge of is not a child. " the parent that always shows understanding to this kind of circumstance, from the good impression that can win a teacher at the beginning.
3, although the parent is very angry, and the parent is reasonable, but in the parent the one side with before be the same as teacher bargaining, also want good to the teacher tries to affirm.
4, although the parent hopes the teacher allows his opinion, also do not hurt the teacher's reputation. Better way is: Want to let a teacher feel above all, the parent's view is correct. When the teacher realizes the parent's view is reasonable truly, the teacher can listen to parent opinion seriously.
5, because feel embarrassed,do not want and do not talk about a few majorrer family problems, affect the domestic issue that behaves at ordinary times to the child especially, should accomplishing this of course is not easy. Only such, ability appears in the child unusual when the understanding that obtains a teacher.
6, " my child is very good, how is the meeting piquant in nursery school Where is make trouble? " all parents think he understand the child most. Every time when the teacher offers different view to the child, the parent often very grouchy. The child is mixed completely in the expression of nursery school different when the home, such phenomenon often produces. Teacher and parent often compare notes, conduce to both sides knowing the child better.
7, although the parent has the sincerity that undertakes cooperative, but whether can the teacher show the meaning that is willing to cooperate? If appear this kind of circumstance, so between parents can each other opens a case, when necessary square or other concerned side mirrors Xiang Yuan, so that undertake intervention in time.
Origin: Shun net - population gazette
